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He asked how much $ I needed monthly and I said just half my rent (775) is plenty, he said he thought it wasn't fair and that I deserved more, but I said 775 was fine, he was to start Jan 1st.

He has zero family here so I invited him over for thanksgiving and xmas and it was very nice. I decided to invite a MALE FRIEND(whom I met through my kids school about a year ago and is a single and great dad to 3 boys, nothing has ever happened between us just chit chat and we just recently exchanged numbers) over for dinner and movies since it was my night without the kids.

I really didn’t feel very much of anything; it seemed simply like going through the motions.

In many ways there had been an inadvertent trade: identity and career plans for motherhood, the settling for part-time freelance writing instead of the magazine editing career in New York complete with white cat and white shag area rug in a loft studio envisioned by a girl long ago.

While some couples use this time period as an opportunity to decide whether or not they can salvage their marriage others are left simply waiting until they can finalize their divorce.A few years ago, I took six months off from my marriage.It wasn’t really planned in advance, pondered for weeks of grave soul-searching and decisions, time spent contemplating how to share the news with friends and family members. My husband and I had been together since high school in the 80s; there are the poufy pink prom photos to prove it.“This wildly varies from person to person,” says Judith Sills, Ph D, a Philadelphia-based psychologist and author of Getting Naked Again: Dating, Romance, Sex, and Love When You've Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted.

“Everyone ends a relationship by grieving the emotional investment.I do not believe that divorce has to be nasty and bitter especially when there are little ones involved.