Dating a selfish man
While you do not have to commit to marrying this person right away, you should realize that any guy-girl relationship you begin has the potential to end in marriage. That is why it is important to consider some warning signs you will look for while dating someone. If you desire to have a marriage relationship built on Scripture, you will want to marry a man who will be a strong spiritual leader to you and your future family. Your spiritual maturity may result in frustration and leadership struggles if he is not as strong as you in his relationship with God. Ultimately, your spiritual condition is up to you and you alone.
If there is always that possibility, then you must ask yourself whether this person has the qualities you will need in a husband. Ask yourself these questions: How strong is his relationship with Jesus Christ? How passionate is he about reading God’s Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers in a biblically solid church? However, in Ephesians Paul compares a husband’s role toward his wife with that of Christ’s role toward His Bride, the Church, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, the she might be holy and without blemish,” (Ephesians -27, emphasis mine).
I’d receive a text that would be so minor, so silly. Then, in a fit of testosterone-induced rage, I’d think to myself: Then I’d break up with the person, completely blindsiding them.
So none of my relationships stuck, and the thought of going on another date sounded as appealing as sticking a needle in my eye. I wasn’t always going to be the one who offers to travel to meet someone.
They seem fun, boisterous, and act like they don't give a sh*t.
You think they're giving the middle finger to societal norms because they march to the beat of their own drum.
Not only would it be foolish, but downright selfish.There's a dominant person in every relationship, but do you feel like your partner is taking it a bit too far?